Today I’m joining Tiffany Moore’s Big Questions series. You might already know Tiffany from Paper and Stitch—she’s a thoughtful voice who encourages people to ask the meaningful questions that clarify real dreams and how to pursue them.
There are ten contributors taking part in this series. Each of us answers one big question and offers a chance to win a Big Question coaching session.
What do you want to be remembered for?
That question felt heavier and more complicated to answer than I expected. It left me turning it over in my head for hours. Recently, after losing my grandmother and our cat within weeks of each other, the idea of legacy and memory has been on my mind a lot.
When I sat down to consider how I want to be remembered, a variety of answers arose—some superficial, some profound. Still, as I kept reflecting, two themes kept resurfacing above all others.
Two things that truly mattered to me
- I want to be remembered as a kind, compassionate person.
- I want to be remembered for helping others.
I believe kindness matters
Kindness can change lives, mend hurts, and make a real difference. I don’t only want the reputation of being kind and compassionate—I want to live those qualities. Whether or not people remember me for them, I aim to be someone who acts with empathy and generosity.
That means supporting my family through difficult times, assisting strangers who later become friends in pursuing their passions, and offering help wherever it’s needed. Those actions feel more important to me than accolades or recognition.
That, in short, is what I hope will define my legacy.
I welcome accountability—if you ever notice me straying from these values, I hope you’ll remind me.
What do you want to be remembered for?
Share your thoughts in the comments below. I’d love to read what matters most to you.